Dancing or any of the performing arts should be an exciting career prospect. Yes, it’s a tough journey, training is intense and securing regular work can be challenging but ask any performer if they would rather do anything else and you will see how passionate they are about their art!
So why are we still talking about the challenges male students face?
Girls do ballet, boys play football, don’t they? An outdated stigma and on the whole, we have come a long way but unfortunately perhaps not far enough yet. This outdated perception that dance is primarily an activity pursued by girls at a young age is changing but it still needs talking about.
From a young age children are influenced by parents, friends and society in general. What would a young boy’s parents encourage him to do as a hobby now in 2020? We really want to help and encourage young male students to continue their journey and their pursuit of becoming performers. Unfortunately, some boys are still teased about dancing and usually this is by people who actually have no idea what it takes to become a dancer/performer.
STRENGTH… DISCIPLINE… COMMITMENT… AGILITY… FITNESS… DEDICATION…TALENT… HARD WORK…
Dancers are athletes
The level of fitness and strength needed to become a professional dancer can be compared with that of a professional athlete. This applies particularly to male dancers. Remember this.
Being teased, name calling and negative comments
As mentioned previously this is something that definitely seems to happen less. With many programmes on television showcasing dance such as Britain’s Got Talent, Strictly Come Dancing and The Greatest Dancer, a wider audience has learned to appreciate dance. This is a definite positive.
However, especially during teenage years, there are still some that can find it amusing to make fun of boys who are studying dance. So, what should you do if you encounter this?
Our advice is to surround yourself with positive people who support you. Form friendships with other boys you dance with, as they will understand and you can talk about your experiences. All too often amazingly talented boys give up because of teasing and negative comments but you need to believe in your talent, passion and yourself and please keep going! You must tell someone if you are struggling. It could be a family member, dance teacher or anyone you feel comfortable talking to. Don’t suffer in silence. There will be so many people who recognise your talent and potential and will want to support you.
I’m the only boy
Many local dance schools are predominantly filled with girls and this can be very off putting for boys. The teachers are mostly female too but they will definitely welcome you and be overjoyed to have male students in their school. With many more styles of dance evolving, dance is becoming a lot ‘cooler’ and there are so many amazing options and opportunities available for boys now. There are some incredible male dance teachers out there that love the opportunity to teach and support young male students. Remember, they probably went through the same as you and will want to help and encourage you. Research classes, workshops, conventions and now even online platforms.
Open Days and Auditions
Many colleges and universities now offer specific open, taster and audition days for boys. You then know that when you arrive you will not be the only boy… maybe you don’t mind this and that’s fantastic but if this worries you, have a look at the websites to see if this is something they offer. Think about the different styles you like and take as many classes and workshops in those as you can but also remember it is good to be an all rounder and even if it is scary, it is good to take classes in the disciplines you are not strong in or maybe have never tried.
Keep going
We haven’t got all the answers but what we can say is that if this is something that you love and makes you happy, please don’t let anything stop you!